
Dear Dr. solution,
My boyfriend Jr, who is now my husband can no longer satisfy my sexual desires. During our courtship, we used to sex for Three to Four rounds. Since we got married our sexual intimacy towards each other has drastically reduced the maximum he can go now is one round. The frequency and intensity of our love making has reduced. I am thinking of a way out but it appears to be a fruitless endeavor. Any suggestions?
Saidu
Aberdeen
Hi Saidu,
There could be a variety of reasons why your husband’s performance level has dipped. Try to find out why. Provide the space for him to openly speak with you about his problems. Support and encourage him to seek professional help. Work with him to improve his confidence, soon, you will be back on cloud nine.