Dear Dr. Solution,
How can I attract my man back? He is 20 years older than me, but he ensured that my emotional and material needs were adequately addressed. He pampered me with love and affection, but my friends always told me that we looked awkward in public. Last month I broke up with him by politely asking him to seek someone within his age bracket. Now he is going out with my best friend who was the main architect of me breaking up with him. She was the one who constantly told me to dump him and find someone in my age range. Can you please assist me to attract him again?
Amanda
Wilberforce
Sierra Leone
Dear Amanda,
It is our attitude at the beginning of a difficult task which, more than anything else, will affect its successful outcome. Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment, until it becomes a memory. Are you sure the other lady is your “best friend”? It appears that she saw what you could not see in him. In this case it seems that you had prayed for a miracle, your prayers were answered, you stroke gold, but you lacked the vision to see it. Next time when you pray for a miracle, please also pray for vision, and be careful who to call your friend.
